The lie men tell little girls when they are grooming them and earning their trust and loyalty: “You didn’t do anything wrong.” And when an abusive controlling ‘boyfriend” turns his “girlfriend” into his pimped out asset and tells her “It’s just sex. You didn’t do anything wrong. It doesn’t have anything to do with my love for you” to make money off her.. And what Epstein told Maxwell as he had her prep young girls for happy hooker duties for his rich clients, “You did nothing wrong.” You were just being dutiful and meeting the needs of your man, being a good little girl, doing what you’re told, which is what girls are supposed to do for men. Right? It’s brainwashing as old as male and female relationships. Women who fall for that hooey know nothing of love or of the massive measure of love Christ has for them. Christ would never have a woman to be used by a man for selfish gratification. It is a lie straight from the lips of the devil. And it lies at the heart of much of the deep free-floating shame felt by women who’ve been lied to since puberty. Love is a mutually giving act of care for one another. I am disgusted with the voraciously pursued sexual dominant ethic that rides roughshod over women across the globe. And with the gutless women who enable and facilitate it in order to have access to power and wealth and how women compete with one another for men using sex. We betray our own precious gift of self which is to be shared in the emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy of marriage.