About the Author
Cathy Boyd Byrd invites others to join her in considering topics of interest to those on the Christian spiritual journey…..discipleship, spirituality, mental health, Christian growth, and Bible study. Cathy enjoys working with others as they transition from emotional emergency and brokenness to spiritual emergence and abundant living! Many of the topics about which Cathy writes are interrelated as experienced in her own life and in the lives of those with whom she works in counseling, teaching, and case management, and in friendships. She believes that sharing our journey of Christian growth and spirituality helps us know God and ourselves better and connects us with others!
Cathy is a Christian Educator and Life Recovery Counselor, and an ordained deacon through Christian Leaders Institute. She serves as Community Outreach MInister at Lynn Haven United Methodist Church. She is a student (disciple) of the Holy Spirit and shares with her students (disciples) the things the Lord teaches her through Bible study and contemplation, incorporating experiences interpreted through the Word, cherished traditions of her faith, and reasoning that comes from seeking the mind of Christ in accountable community. She was widowed in August 2020 after 48 years of marriage to Bill Byrd, is mother of 2 and grandmother of 5. Her journey of faith has been lifelong and continues to be an adventure with the trailblazer and guide, Jesus Christ!
Cathy is the founder and program manager for a Christian women’s residential life recovery program, Titus 2 Partnership, Inc.(www.titus2.life) in Panama City, Florida.
A Christian’s Rationale for Why One Should Leave an Abuser Sooner Rather Than Later
(CAUTION: I realize this may be a controversial subject and not everyone is going to see it this way. I have worked with women from abusive backgrounds and in abusive relationships long enough to have heard a few of their reasons for staying or going back. In the long run, none of them make any sense to me biblically.) A significant part of Titus 2's program involves discussions of co-dependency, personal self- identity, self-worth, and boundaries. A co-dependent mindset may cause one to feel the need to "rescue", "save", or be a "mother", "best-friend", "confidant" or "savior" in...
Why Do You Love Me? How Do You Love Me?
I am amused by some of the sappy memes about "love" that people post proclaiming how this or that love relationship is "forever"...like romantic relationships (which may be the 3rd one of the year or an on again/off again relationship), or a family relationship like mother/daughter, father/son, siblings, or BFFs.....when the individual's own life is a testimony to the fact that such relationships for them are not "loving." They are better described as lust....or codependent need....or people-using self-interest based ethics at work. It makes me cautious about even using the word...
On Wellness the Way God Intends
On Wellness the Way God Intends Cathy Byrd January 15, 2017 As perspectives on wellness in the most recent issue of The Interpreter magazine of the The United Methodist Church note, we are three-part beings- possessing “body, mind, and spirit”. Whenever one wants to refer to the holistic nature of people we generally see that phrase –“ body, mind, and spirit”. Google that phrase and you’ll find a multitude of references to it. It is prolifically infused throughout our culture. As I learned more about what motivates and characterizes human behavior, I...
Through the Bible in a Year- Thoughts on the Final Session on Revelation
A group was discussing Revelation as part of its final "Through the Bible in a Year" study...It was speculated that the beast that rises from the dark, fearsome, and unknown abyss of the sea (that gets its authority and direction from the dragon) and the beast of the land that rises up to serve the beast of the sea, represent forces at work in the world most all of the time and that are especially observable in the world now. One observed that the beast of the sea is likely a philosophy that is anti-Christian, secular humanistic, and militant in its persecution of Christ (propagated by and...
Go, Tell
Our pastor pointed out this week that the shepherds....considered "low lifes" in the culture of their day.....were the first beyond Jesus' family to hear the news of the newborn Messiah. They hurried and found him lying in the manger. It is notable in Scripture, too, that women, a culturally repressed and disempowered group, were the first to receive the news of Christ's resurrection. With each of these events, they ran to tell others. The Samaritan woman at the well, another person of apparently low community standing for still other reasons, when she came to the realization of who it was...
The Taste of Christmas
Last night, with a cup of my favorite hot tea, I enjoyed the last few fruitcake cookies (and crumbs) from a batch sent to us by my Mother. I parcel them out a few at a time throughout the holiday, to savor as long as possible. It is a gift to her children's families that she has done each year around Thanksgiving for many years. Imagine how many cups of fruit and nuts are required for four families....how many cookie sheets in and out of the oven! Thank you, Mother, for a tradition that makes the season especially merry!
Thoughts on The OA
Bill and I are binging today on a TV movie series, The OA, described as a "spiritual thriller". In it there's a lot of speculation about Near Death Experiences, "NDE", with an obsessed psychopathic scientist holding a group of NDE survivors prisoner as experimental subjects. One of them figures out a way to out-smart the scientist and gets away after seven years in captivity. They seem to have one thing in common- each has a strong will to survive and each appears to have made a choice to return to life in the midst of their NDE. At a time when I was very emotionally traumatized and...
Cookie recipes from Neighbor’s Cookie Swap
Chocolate Peanut Butter Balls 2 c. confectioner’s sugar 1 c. peanut butter ¾ c. graham cracker crumbs ½ c. softened butter 2 (1 oz.) squares of unsweetened chocolate 2 ½ “ square of paraffin Combine first 4 ingredients. Roll into ¾” balls. Chill. Melt chocolate and paraffin in a double boiler. Dip balls. Place on waxed paper. Makes about 60 candies. Date and Nut Balls 1 stick margarine 1 c. sugar 1 pkg. of dates, cut up 1 Tbsp. milk 2 c. Rice Krispies ½ c. chopped pecans Coconut or powdered sugar Combine margarine, sugar, milk, and dates in pan...
Life from the Backside of 60
Life from the Backside of 60 There is a meme that was making its round on Facebook that went like this: “In your 20’s you are annoyed that others talk about you. In your 40’s you no longer care that others talk about you. In your 60’s you realize no one was ever talking about you.” It is a fact of life that as one moves through the decade of her 60’s life takes on a very different air. For some, symptoms of chronic diseases make life gradually more stressful and sedentary. The frequency of doctor appointments and the number of specialists one must consult increases. Eating out...
Compassionate Detachment
"Compassionate detachment is the ability to be present with a person while remaining separate from the outcomes of their predicament." Last night at Depression Impact Group (D.I.G.) we talked about dealing with emotions when a friendship ends....based on Christianne Squires' post this week about "welcoming prayer". Christianne found herself suddenly dealing with grief, humiliation, and other negative emotions triggered by encountering someone she had lost as a friend due to circumstances beyond her control. She writes that when she realized how she was ruminating on the past and feeling...