There is only 1 Jesus Christ. He sacrificed himself for each of us and for all of us…. If you don’t like that I have boundaries that prohibit me from accepting responsibility for or making sacrifices on behalf of you or someone else against my will, contrary to my prayerfully considered judgment, or in the best interest of those involved, take it up with Jesus….. don’t try to manipulate me, guilt trip or crucify me for failing to be your savior. I’ll introduce you to mine and He can teach you to set your own boundaries……
If one does not feel free or is unable to say “No,” then her yes is not freely given. It is coerced, is under obligation, or is given out of some sense of fear or a warped definition of love that believes it is necessary to please someone through compliance to receive love (conditional love) or to be seen as loving and good by others or in her own opinion of herself (dependency or co-dependency.)
