A much younger friend wrote this about 6-7 years ago ….I ached to think of her loneliness. I had felt this loneliness for many years when i was a young adult. Then, in my early middle years, I realized God was sending several people for whom I was to BE that person. The problem was I didn’t WANT to be that person for them! I had to learn to be a friend to the friendless before I could have that kind of friend myself.