About the Author
Cathy Boyd Byrd invites others to join her in considering topics of interest to those on the Christian spiritual journey…..discipleship, spirituality, mental health, Christian growth, and Bible study. Cathy enjoys working with others as they transition from emotional emergency and brokenness to spiritual emergence and abundant living! Many of the topics about which Cathy writes are interrelated as experienced in her own life and in the lives of those with whom she works in counseling, teaching, and case management, and in friendships. She believes that sharing our journey of Christian growth and spirituality helps us know God and ourselves better and connects us with others!
Cathy is a Christian Educator and Life Recovery Counselor, and an ordained deacon through Christian Leaders Institute. She serves as Community Outreach MInister at Lynn Haven United Methodist Church. She is a student (disciple) of the Holy Spirit and shares with her students (disciples) the things the Lord teaches her through Bible study and contemplation, incorporating experiences interpreted through the Word, cherished traditions of her faith, and reasoning that comes from seeking the mind of Christ in accountable community. She was widowed in August 2020 after 48 years of marriage to Bill Byrd, is mother of 2 and grandmother of 5. Her journey of faith has been lifelong and continues to be an adventure with the trailblazer and guide, Jesus Christ!
Cathy is the founder and program manager for a Christian women’s residential life recovery program, Titus 2 Partnership, Inc.(www.titus2.life) in Panama City, Florida.
“And, lo, I am with you always…”
"God doesn’t love you any less when you throw a temper tantrum. He doesn’t owe you an explanation, but he is never afraid of what you have to say. So tell him. It’ll be the beginning of healing." -- Pastor Rick Warren Yesterday in a prayer group, the facilitator asked us when did we come to the realization that God is ALWAYS WITH US? As I thought about it, after I became a born-again Christian there were situations and states of mind/emotion in which I was uncomfortable with the thought that God WAS always with me! I believed that I had to be in a posture and state of mind of...
I Am Thine, O Lord…..
From time to time a student will ask me about dreams.....does God speak to us through them. My response is, "Sometimes." Well, how do you know? I tell them that, in my experience, if a dream seems particularly clear and memorable, that is the first clue. If the meaning is not just abundantly clear in the moment based on one's own understanding, but it seems to persist and invite examination, then one should consider that God has given the dream and ask God for the meaning. And even if you think you know the meaning, ask God to confirm that your understanding is correct. My experience is that...
Daddy’s Girl
"To say that one is wholly and undeniably happy is to lie. For how are we, such shallow beings, to determine those things which have gone to the utter depths of our souls and left them scarred with sorrow? Does not every singular happening that we perceive affect us? There is no way to sort those affectations into bundles and say which ones we shall one day be forced to recall- and regret! Did not God impart to each of us a bit of himself? It may be so encumbered by human actions and thoughts that it is quite unable to be seen. But it is there, even so. Because of this fiber of deity in each...
What More Can I Give?
Today a group of 10 ladies gathered for the beginning of a six week journey in prayer…..specifically a particular kind of prayer called “centering prayer”. It is done entirely in silence, focused yet yielded, individually or in a group. Several of us had attended a workshop on this prayer method in June together in Alabama and had decided we’d like to start a group here in Bay County to gather together to share and encourage one another in this prayer method. In this prayer method, after a devotional beginning time, one uses a “sacred word” (for which she has prayed) that serves as a...
Love, Like A River……..
There are times when God brings just the right prescription for what ails one. Today was such a day. For nearly 10 months I have been trekking through various stages of grief, disappointment, and confusion over a life-long relationship that had taken a turn that left me standing with my hand outstretched asking, "Who is this person???" I was stuck with a troublesome dilemma of how to respond to behavior so out of character by someone I loved and thought I knew, that I could not even comprehend what had happened and why. I struggled to grasp the individual's behavior that was so out of...
What’s in a name?
On March 26, 2012 I wrote about being asked to serve on the board of a local ministry and the surprise I felt in seeing my name in the minutes, being referred to as "Reverend Cathy Byrd" for the first time. As a commissioned deacon, I am allowed, even encouraged by the Order of Deacons, to use that title, as the role of clergy is one that a provisional deacon pursuing ordination is expected to live into. In April 2014, in the midst of some career changes, my status and role as clergy was challenged by several people outside of the Methodist Church, then even by some within my own...
Beatitudes…..Continuing Thoughts on Teaching
I began studying the Beatitudes in 2001 and teaching them as a progressive journey toward Christ-like character. It took me countless hours of study and research to find others who had seen and taught them this way. Martyn Lloyd-Jones was one. His book "Sermons on the Sermon on the Mount" was valuable in this process. Also, the Ladder of the Beatitudes by St. John of the Cross. Dr. John Westing of Denver Theological Seminary gave me the original "stair step" diagram that I enhanced through the years. Today I see numerous teachers posting on the internet about this way of viewing the...
Teaching a student to learn what she needs rather than to show what I know…..
Earlier this year I had written a Bible study on the book of Ephesians and used it in a study with some women in a discipleship program. My work was later reviewed by a group of people who oversee my ministry as a provisional deacon and it was noted that I had used phrases like, “the Apostle Paul notes” or “Paul says” in my study. I was asked if I was familiar with historical-critical challenges to Paul’s authorship of the book of Ephesians and, if so, why had I not included that information in my study. I explained that my target audience is women who are new Christians and who generally...
Evangelegends…..Theology Run Amok in Social Media
From time to time I have posted a challenge in a comment to some trite, easy happy-thought poster-board saying that purports to offer a Christian view of life on the internet. This article by Roger Olson is a good rebuttal to the kind of “evangelegend” folk religion theology that is so ubiquitous in social media and entertainment and elsewhere in our culture. Get real, folks. Study your Bible. Know what you believe. Don’t let the modern version of “bumper sticker” theology drive your beliefs…..or lead you into false beliefs or simplistic religiosity. (Cathy Byrd) Evangelegends: The...
Conditions for Answered Prayer
Conditions for Answered Prayer Read John 14:12-14 Jesus taught many things about prayer and its central role in believer’s life. He also promised that our petitions will be answered when we meet certain requirements. One condition is mentioned in John 14:14: after receiving Christ as our personal Savior, we have the right to present requests in Jesus’ name, which means praying something that the Lord Himself might pray. Whenever we exercise this privilege, we must come to the Father, depending not on our own good works or character but on the merits of Christ alone. Jesus’ atoning death on...