About the Author
Cathy Boyd Byrd invites others to join her in considering topics of interest to those on the Christian spiritual journey…..discipleship, spirituality, mental health, Christian growth, and Bible study. Cathy enjoys working with others as they transition from emotional emergency and brokenness to spiritual emergence and abundant living! Many of the topics about which Cathy writes are interrelated as experienced in her own life and in the lives of those with whom she works in counseling, teaching, and case management, and in friendships. She believes that sharing our journey of Christian growth and spirituality helps us know God and ourselves better and connects us with others!
Cathy is a Christian Educator and Life Recovery Counselor, and an ordained deacon through Christian Leaders Institute. She serves as Community Outreach MInister at Lynn Haven United Methodist Church. She is a student (disciple) of the Holy Spirit and shares with her students (disciples) the things the Lord teaches her through Bible study and contemplation, incorporating experiences interpreted through the Word, cherished traditions of her faith, and reasoning that comes from seeking the mind of Christ in accountable community. She was widowed in August 2020 after 48 years of marriage to Bill Byrd, is mother of 2 and grandmother of 5. Her journey of faith has been lifelong and continues to be an adventure with the trailblazer and guide, Jesus Christ!
Cathy is the founder and program manager for a Christian women’s residential life recovery program, Titus 2 Partnership, Inc.(www.titus2.life) in Panama City, Florida.
Fear God
From July 23,2021: “FEAR GOD AND YOU WILL FEAR NOTHING ELSE,” GOV. RON DESANTIS I’m always surprised when I discover that many Christians don’t understand the biblical call to fear God. It doesn’t mean quake and quiver with trembling anticipation of being struck by a lightning bolt or being sent straight to hell if you mess up…… it means revere, honor, trust, listen with respect, and obey God. He created us… He loves us. He will discipline us at times, but He does not punish His children.
Learning To Have Difficult Conversations
Wisdom from Dr.Henry Cloud: “Learning to have a difficult conversation helps you solve problems. Now, this seems obvious, but it's an important benefit of confrontation. Boundary conversations are geared towards addressing and resolving an issue that is keeping two people apart or is hurtful to someone. When things work well, a problem is solved and you can move on in the relationship. This can apply to all sorts of relational problems: your date's sexual advances your spouse’s fiscal irresponsibility your boss’s unrealistic demands The world just works this way. When you expose problems to...
Silver Anniversary Remembered
26 years ago today-(July 22,1997) This was our 25th wedding anniversary, celebrated at my parents' home in Georgia, near Newnan and Peachtree City...with our sweet little rescue terrier mix, Abby. The fact that we made it through that particular year was truly a gift from God as it was the most challenging year of our marriage. Bill died Aug 6, 2020 just 15 days after our 48th anniversary. I am so profoundly grateful to God that Bill had a deeply personal relationship with Christ. He was in a small group with other men all those last 29 years, too, after our lordship surrender of our...
Still…. Happy Anniversary-ing
As a significant date is near......remembering. 7/22/22 is the 50 year anniversary of marriage to Bill, my husband who died of COVID 8/6/20, 2 weeks after our 48th. Marriage is a journey in growing individually, together, and in Christ. There's nothing like it for soul growth, refining character, teaching mature love, rising above suffering, and finding joy. May God greatly bless those who stick with it, as he did us!
Lament
Loss and lament bring opportunities to be drawn deeper into the loving heart of God the Father, into the mind of Jesus Christ Man of Sorrows, into the comfort of the Holy Spirit consolation.......who know both intimately. (CBByrd 7/19/22) Tonight a small group of women were reading 2Timothy 2 and the issue of suffering with Christ came up..... It was a thought-provoking discussion. How do we suffer for Christ or with Christ? How do we respond to suffering?
When Testing Comes
Here's another "ponderable" that arose from a conversation today....One person has stated that "life is a test" and she sees everything through the lens of being tested. I asked if she felt the tests were from the devil or from God. "God." If she views everything in life through the lens of a test, then at least she has given the best answer for where that test is coming from. Okay, then, if the test is coming from God, you may rest assured that God will not let you fail. if you "score" poorly, he'll give you another opportunity. God is a god of "do-overs." If you think he will punish you...
Fullness of Christ
Ephesians 4:11-13 NIV So Christ himself gave the apostles, the prophets, the evangelists, the pastors and teachers, to equip his people for works of service, so that the body of Christ may be built up until we all reach unity in the faith and in the knowledge of the Son of God and become mature, attaining to the whole measure of the fullness of Christ. This scripture is the focal point of my Seedbed Daily Text online devotional today, July 24, 2021. As I listened to it being read, I was taken immediately to the remembrance of John 1:14-17 that is the revelation of Christ as the fullness of...
Self-Awareness Versus Other-Awareness
Of the many objections that some members of the Board of Ministry of The UMC lobbed at me one after another over the final three years of the nine year journey in its determination to thwart my pursuit of ordination, perhaps the most amusing was that I lacked "self-awareness". As I have said again and again, I am quite capable of "self-awareness", but God has called me to "other-awareness", to think in terms of what is good for more than simply myself....like the others who were being hurt by the demeaning and attacking way some on the Board were pursuing their authority and responsibility...
GOD…….Always, Everywhere, Forever
Our daughter drove me to the outpatient surgery center in Birmingham, AL this morning for the planned thyroid right lobectomy. We arrived at the door promptly at 5 a.m. and I was registered, gowned, and waiting for the anesthesiologist and surgeon pre-op review and "mark up" by 5:25. LOL! As I lay there, tears slid down both sides of my face. I wasn't anxious or afraid. I simply felt the enveloping grief of being in such a situation without Bill for the first time since 1972. Charlotte was right there with me and I am very grateful for her. But even now, almost three years after Bill's...
Launching Them Out Into The Water
Elisabeth Elliot Quotes “There comes a time - many times, actually - in the lives of our children where we have to put the basket in the water. We have to let go and trust the plan of the Father. The world is a scary place - a place where we fear our children could drown. But we must remember that we have to let go so that God can draw them from the waters for His great purpose. He has called us to be their parents, but they were His first. My friend, whatever water you may be getting ready to put your basket into - remember that you have to put them in the water for God to draw them out...