About the Author
Cathy Boyd Byrd invites others to join her in considering topics of interest to those on the Christian spiritual journey…..discipleship, spirituality, mental health, Christian growth, and Bible study. Cathy enjoys working with others as they transition from emotional emergency and brokenness to spiritual emergence and abundant living! Many of the topics about which Cathy writes are interrelated as experienced in her own life and in the lives of those with whom she works in counseling, teaching, and case management, and in friendships. She believes that sharing our journey of Christian growth and spirituality helps us know God and ourselves better and connects us with others!
Cathy is a Christian Educator and Life Recovery Counselor, and an ordained deacon through Christian Leaders Institute. She serves as Community Outreach MInister at Lynn Haven United Methodist Church. She is a student (disciple) of the Holy Spirit and shares with her students (disciples) the things the Lord teaches her through Bible study and contemplation, incorporating experiences interpreted through the Word, cherished traditions of her faith, and reasoning that comes from seeking the mind of Christ in accountable community. She was widowed in August 2020 after 48 years of marriage to Bill Byrd, is mother of 2 and grandmother of 5. Her journey of faith has been lifelong and continues to be an adventure with the trailblazer and guide, Jesus Christ!
Cathy is the founder and program manager for a Christian women’s residential life recovery program, Titus 2 Partnership, Inc.(www.titus2.life) in Panama City, Florida.
No Greater Love……
Praying tonight for a friend and for her friend with whom she has been praying and journeying through a difficult time this past week. Everyone needs the kind of friend who can and will drop everything to be there when her friend needs her, and whose family and friends love her all the more for being that kind of friend to others! Lord, bless those whom we love, those who love us, those who are loved by those we love, and those who love those whom we love. Help us to love the unlovely and especially those who do not feel worthy of being loved. Let your love abide within all of our...
Spiritual Guidance
Listening, hearing the hurt, knowing the truth of another's loneliness and fear......and being able to persuade her that there is help, that you know Him, and will go with her to meet Him...or sit with her and cry, too, while you both wait for Him to dry the tears. CBB. 10/28/17
“Born Again”….Not So Easy
I have observed again and again the relationship between pain and poverty of spirit (Matthew 5:3) and coming into the Kingdom of God. It's alluded to in all of the Gospels and the other writings of the Apostles, like James, Peter, and Paul. Also, the metaphors of Scripture are far more than poetic language. They are instructive about realities of life in faith! Working with women, especially those who have given birth, this metaphor has the power to resonate. Beth Stovell provides some good perspective here in this article from Christianity Today. Very truly I tell you, you will weep and...
In the Name of Disclosure….
For those who do not know me, I had been a candidate in The UMC for deacon's ordination in service ministry with the homeless and addicted individuals since 2008 until Annual Conference in June of this year. The first six years of that journey were joyful years. I completed the required work, was commissioned in 2012 and began the 2 years residency, all while pursuing the life's work of Christian education and . in 2014, I applied for ordination. The Board of Ministry of The Alabama West Florida Conference had, I was told, undergone about a 40% turnover in the prior year. The retirement...
Living Local, Giving Local…….
It is the time of year when many churches set their budgets for the following year and conduct their stewardship campaigns. Among Methodist friends I am hearing more and more people (of the ones who have chosen to remain in a local UMC congregations) expressing their concern over continued news reports : same sex marriages and homosexual clergy ordination in The UMC, over-representation in General Conference of small liberal conferences, under-representation of conferences in more traditional and orthodox areas like Africa and elsewhere, liberal seminary teaching, heretical episcopal...
Listening A Soul Into Existence….
Catherine de Hueck Doherty: With the gift of listening comes the gift of healing, because listening to your brothers or sisters until they have said the last words in their hearts is healing and consoling. Someone has said that it is possible "to listen a person's soul into existence." I like that. (from Christian Spirituality of the East for Western Man) Tonight I was looking for a particular book and came across an old obsolete address book that I used for decades probably beginning circa 1978. I thought I had long ago thrown it out with the advent of computer databases and social media...
Word and Way……Learn and Live
Today with the Titus 2 ladies we did a lesson on Isaiah 1:18-19.....God's call to reason. This is not an invitation to argue or debate with God about God's priorities. I hear it more like God saying, "You stiff-necked, stubborn, ungrateful and uninformed people.....listen to me! This is the bottom line. God's gives a description of his two-fold work of grace in addressing our sin.......making it "like snow" (the imputed justifying grace that wraps around and covers us in the pure righteousness of Christ) and making it's crimson stain "as wool" (the imparted sanctifying...
Thy Kingdom Come…..
Some days you're flying and some days you're landing in the net...... Some days I fail miserably with Patience. Yesterday it was comical how strenuously God tested my Patience quotient. As exhausting and time consuming as it was, I managed to actually smile through the whole experience. I think the difference was that my time for the day was consciously and intentionally given entirely to whatever God purposed. I was free to give it to the circumstances God put before me without feeling that I was denying someone else something they needed, that my own agenda was being interrupted, or that...
In The Hands Of God……Sometimes Humorously and Exhilaratingly So!
I love the imagery of being "In The Hands of God". Last night I heard that song as I was driving home from Bethlehem Family Camp in Bonifay, FL., and this morning I was reminded of this post when it popped up on my FB. Thanks for the laugh this morning, Pammi Jo Alsip Nevins, as I remember our conversation at your kitchen table! ( From my Facebook post on October 22, 2016) I have a friend that makes me laugh. She puts such fun words in God's mouth! "MY circus, MY little monkey!" I'm feeling a little like Curious George in the hands of my Trainer ! What it feels like sometimes to be in the...
Control Dramas and UMC Ordination Committees
I was reading information today about a workshop on reducing "control dramas" Here's some of the information: "What is a Control Drama: How Do We Interact without Tension? How to Recognize Intimidator Behavior How to Recognize Poor Me Behavior How to Recognize Interrogator Behavior How to Recognize Aloof Behavior Assertive Communication Creates Balance for Any Control Drama" Man, oh, man! I wish I had had something like this to lalert me to how to deal with Interrogator Behavior and Aloof Behavior before I had my first interaction with the ordination committees of the UMC Conference Board in...