About the Author
Cathy Boyd Byrd invites others to join her in considering topics of interest to those on the Christian spiritual journey…..discipleship, spirituality, mental health, Christian growth, and Bible study. Cathy enjoys working with others as they transition from emotional emergency and brokenness to spiritual emergence and abundant living! Many of the topics about which Cathy writes are interrelated as experienced in her own life and in the lives of those with whom she works in counseling, teaching, and case management, and in friendships. She believes that sharing our journey of Christian growth and spirituality helps us know God and ourselves better and connects us with others!
Cathy is a Christian Educator and Life Recovery Counselor, and an ordained deacon through Christian Leaders Institute. She serves as Community Outreach MInister at Lynn Haven United Methodist Church. She is a student (disciple) of the Holy Spirit and shares with her students (disciples) the things the Lord teaches her through Bible study and contemplation, incorporating experiences interpreted through the Word, cherished traditions of her faith, and reasoning that comes from seeking the mind of Christ in accountable community. She was widowed in August 2020 after 48 years of marriage to Bill Byrd, is mother of 2 and grandmother of 5. Her journey of faith has been lifelong and continues to be an adventure with the trailblazer and guide, Jesus Christ!
Cathy is the founder and program manager for a Christian women’s residential life recovery program, Titus 2 Partnership, Inc.(www.titus2.life) in Panama City, Florida.
Does peace equal contentment….
Recently, an adult Sunday school class of which I am a part has been contemplating "contentment". Whenever the topic of contentment comes up, most people seem to automatically preface it with "peace and.....", as if the two are so closely related as to be synonymous. For quite a few years I have been using the occasion of the New Year as a time for self assessment of my own sense of peacefulness. In the years that I have been doing that, I think I have, at times, associated being at peace with contentment, too. And yet, as I reflect on the last few years, I seem to always have "something...
Learning something new all the time….
When my husband scheduled a trip to visit our grandchildren, who happen to live in Indianapolis, the weekend of the Indy 50o, it was obvious what his intended goal was. As a happy serendipity, however, he arrived in time to accompany our six year old grandson (and 30 or so other 6 year olds!) on a duckpin bowling field trip. When our daughter in law told me what they were going to do, I imagined bowling pins in the shape of ducks being toppled by standard bowling balls. The idea of it alone was a howl. Then, after hearing about the event and sneeking a peak at Wikipedia, I discovered it is...
Heroes and friends…..
Recently, I saw a sampler that said, "Friendship isn't a big thing; it's a million little things." I thought to myself, "yep, so true" and wondered how many friends have fallen by the wayside or been kicked to the curb not for failing to be there for the big things in someone's life, but for being just too busy and unavailable for any number of little things, so that one just finds that such a friend is no longer even needed when the big thing comes along.I am blessed to have several really valuable "million little things" friends! They're people who know my moods, likes, dislikes, fears,...
Laughing as my head nods “YES!”…
Whenever I need a good laugh, I read one of Doug Giles' columns at Townhall.com. Giles is an in-your-face evangelical pastor who writes from a different point of view, one much younger than my own. While I may question his use of some culturally obnoxious references/words, I am in agreement with most of what he writes. This one had me howling out loud tonight. With all the talk of "emergent churches", I just loved his spin....The Detergent ChurchDoug GilesSaturday, May 24, 2008I was being interviewed on talk radio a couple of weeks ago when the “talent” turned the discussion to my faith and...
Another one done…..
The comprehensive exam for graduation from the master's program in counseling proved to be less daunting than I'd expected. Though I won't know the score for about 30 days, I feel comfortable that I achieved a score that will permit me to graduate.I'm discovering, however, that employment options in the field, while apparently numerous, are often "contractor" positions....i.e. no benefits, part time, per diem, etc. This week I was offered another part time job- 15 hours a week- at the same homeless center where I completed the practicum this past term. This, in addition to the current 15...
Catching my breath……
This past week ended the spring term of graduate school. I have one remaining course in the final term and the comprehensive exam to take. I feel somewhat like the little train that could..... I think I can, I think I can, I think I can....finish, that is. Being this close to the end causes a lot of mixed emotions. I've learned a lot. Mostly, though, I've learned how much more I have to learn. I have begun interviewing for jobs. But the job I'd thought would be ideal and that I've wanted and worked for seems as out of reach as ever. I have the feeling of seeing the light at the end of the...
The reason I’m here….
....at this lakeside home was renewed again this evening with the setting of the sun. It was a spectacular sunset, with a beautiful view right out the middle window of our sunroom, across the lake. We had spent all day working in the yard and pulling aquatic trash out of the lake that has over grown with grasses and weeds since the lake hasn't been drawn down for two years. After the refreshment of late afternoon showers and a Chinese takeout dinner, we were both achy and moaning about the amount of work that is required to keep up the yard. Then the sunset caught our eyes and we remembered...
Doggie update…
Ginger and JJ returned home with their family when all were reunited. A week later they were back again when the family was reported and fined for having pets in their apartment. So.... they came back again to our house but soon found an accomodating home with a family who'd recently lost their family pet, a dachsund. I am glad to have played a foster mom and adoption counselor role!
Doggie tales….
Our two little chihuahua guests have settled in and seem to be thriving. A local veterinarian has agreed to take care of spaying and neutering them for free. We'll get them current on their shots. A non-profit pet adoption service has agreed to assist in finding them homes. And I'm told by the service volunteer that chihuahuas are in demand because they fit so nicely on an owner's lap! So.... our experience as foster parents to two little displaced doggies is proving to be positive. I feel sad for the two little girls who've had to give them up. They're the ages of our two oldest...
Displaced Doggies….
Domestic violence is hard on everyone, including the pets of children. Tonight I have two small canines camping in my sunroom in a crate because two adults couldn't live together in a civil manner. Now the mom and children are in safe shelter, Dad's who knows where, and these little canines are wondering what in the world is next. Come to think of it, I'm wondering what in the world is next, too.Every day brings surprises......some pleasant, some annoying, some just sad. That's life.